Thursday, December 31, 2009

Best of 2009

2009 is just a memory. Here is a look back at what I liked during 2009. You won't see any top 10 lists, because there aren't any categories of things that I liked enough to go to 10. My list is pretty ideosyncratic, so please feel free to offer your own comments.

Movies

I can only remember six movies that I saw in the theater this year. However, four of them were really good and two just blew away my expectations. The others were all pretty good, but nothing to write home about.

Avatar:



Avatar should rank as the absolute, totally best movie of the year. I thought that the 3D effects would be cheesy. However, they created a feeling of being inside a lush, visually stunning world. The story did what science fiction does best, which is to use a futuristic setting to explore themes which apply today.

Avatar is about a conflict on a distant moon between a greedy corporation who wants to exploit the planets resources and the Na'vi, giant blue bipeds who worship a nature goddess. Inbetween these two forces are the scientists who develop the avatars. Avatars are genetically created versions of the Na'vi but controlled by a human "driver." The avatars are meant to be a link between the Na'vi and the humans. Of course, the project works too well and the Avatar drivers end up siding with the Na'vi against the evil corporation and its soldiers. Jake Sully is the most conflicted character of all. He is a marine who lost his legs who is asked to join the program after his scientist brother is killed. Because he is a genetic match for his brother, he can drive his brother's avatar. However, because he is a marine, he is viewed with suspicion by the scientists and is pressured by the soldiers to infiltrate the scientists' operation.

The theme of human exploitation of a native populace is one which goes back as far as the Spanish conquest of the New World and is as contemporary as Freeport McMoran's activities in Indonesia. The corporate mercenaries could just as well have been named Blackwater (or the evil corporation from the Alien movies). The theme of scientists who want to understand the natives has its real world counterpart in the battle for the hearts and minds of the locals in Vietnam, Iraq and Afghanistan.

The genius of this movie is that it draws the viewer into its world regardless of political or religious persuasions. I am conservative and Christian. The movie's bent is definitely liberal and pantheistic. However, the film transcends these categories to raise issues of what it means to be human and basic right vs. wrong.

The movie has several great scenes. The first time that Jake awakens his avatar, he is able to have legs through his surrogate body. Ignoring the doctors' warnings to take it slow, he leaps off the table and sprints around the compound.

Another great scene is when the marine gunships attack the Na'vi home, a giant tree and one of helicopter gunships piloted by Michelle Rodriquez turns on the Colonel's ships and says "oops, did I do that?" or something like that.

Zombieland:



Zombieland surpasses Sean of the Dead to rank as best Zombie comedy in history. In a case of mad cow disease gone wild, most of America has been turned into flesh-eating zombies.

"Columbus" (Jesse Eisenberg) is a neurotic college student from Austin who longs to get close enough to a girl to brush the hair from her ear. He almost gets the chance when a cute girl seeks refuge in his apartment. However, he has to kill her (with the top of a toilet tank, I think) when she turns into a zombie the next day. He develops a long list of rules for surviving in Zombieland, such as cardio (fatties get eaten first) and double tap (always make sure to shoot a zombie twice in the head).

Columbus teams up with Tallahassee (Woody Harrelsen) in an attempt to survive. While Tallahassee knows a lot about fighting zombies, that doesn't protect him from two sisters, Wichita (Emma Stone) and Little Rock (Abigail Breslin) who steal their vehicle and guns. Of course, the quartet gets back together again in pursuit of survival. The sisters get the idea that they will be safe if they can only get to Pacific Playland and end up ditching the guys. Pacific Playland turns into a zombie magnet, the guys come to the rescue and Columbus gets his first kiss.

Unlike more serious zombie movies, such as 28 Days Later, this movie is much more tongue in cheek. While other people are gruesomelly devoured, our heroes learn how to survive in Zombieland. There is also a degree of sweet innocence here. There is something sad about a guy whose greatest hope is to get close enough to a girl to brush the hair from her ear and for whom getting a chaste kiss is a lifetime accomplishment. There is also something poignant about two grifter girls who are cold-hearted enough to steal from guys who offered to help them, but believe that an amusement park will be a place of refuge.

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince:



I immensely enjoyed the Harry Potter books, especially as they became darker and more desperate. As a result, it is easy to be disappointed by the films. However, this one did not disappoint. The filmmaker crafted a tale from the book which could stand on its own and was not afraid to deviate from the original. You just can't make a watchable movie out of an 800 page book and they didn't try. This was also one of those rareities, a movie that you could take the whole family to.

Grand Torino:



This was the first movie which blew me away this year. Rather than trying to recap it again, here is part of what I wrote on my blog on January 11 of last year:

I rarely walk out of a movie and say "wow." However, that's exactly the reaction my wife and I had when we emerged from seeing Clint Eastwood's latest movie "Gran Torino." While the gaunt, aging Eastwood plays the same iconic loner who appeared in Spaghetti Westerns and the Dirty Harry films, his character is decidedly more complex.

The movie is remarkable on many levels. To see character development in a Clint Eastwood movie is refreshing. The clash of cultures between the traditional Polish-American Kowalski and his traditional Hmong neighbors is delicately played out. The sympathetic portrayal of a naive young Catholic priest is also engaging. Without spoiling the ending too badly, there is also a sequence where Eastwood plays homage to the John Wayne role in "Rooster Cogburn." While the critics have given this a ho-hum response, it is a movie worth seeing.

Television:



I don't watch much TV so this list is pretty short. However, two new series on Sci-Fi (I refuse to say SyFy, it is just too silly) caught my attention. I am totally addicted to Warehouse 13, a show about Secret Service Agents who take possession of artifacts that do weird things. The chemistry between Pete (Eddie McClintock) and Myka (Joanne Kelly)is reminscent of Agents Scully and Mulder. Claudia(Allison Scagliotti who played Mindy on Drake and Josh) adds some comic humor and coolness to the show. She says dude a lot.

I also watched Primeval on Sci-Fi this year. This show is about scientists who discover a rift in the space-time continuum which allows dinosaurs to wander into modern-day England. This show started out really cool and dragged a bit by the end of the season. Hopefully it will come back invigorated.

Music:



In my family, 2009 was dominated by the Trans-Siberian Orchestra's Nightcastle. We are all big TSO fans and enjoy seeing their show each year. We have been waiting for Nightcastle for years and it finally came out this year as a 26 track double disc. The ambitious story is a little hard to follow, but like most of TSO's work is grand in scope and uplifting, telling a story about a doomed army officer, a Khmer Rouge general, a drug dealer and a little girl.

Like the story, the music is soaring and grand, mixing rock and classical music. One of my favorite tracks is "The Mountain" which is adapted from The Hall of the Mountain King from the Peer Gynt Suite. The music is very story-driven, so that some of the songs dealing with combat are pretty harsh.



I also totally enjoyed MxPx's On the Cover II. This CD includes 13 covers by MxPx, including Major Tom, Somebody to Love and Punk Rock Girl. I love 80s music and these covers are a tribute to the 80s done by one of my favorite punk bands.

Honorable mentions include Sorry for Partyin' by Bowling for Soup. I just got this, so I haven't completely made up my mind, but it seems fun. I also loved individual songs by three female singers: "Hot 'N Cold" by Katy Perry, "So What" by Pink and "You Belong With Me" by Taylor Swift. I had to try hard not to like Taylor Swift's "Love Story" (didn't like the underlying message of female dependency).

Books:



My favorite book of 2009 was Jay Brandon's Milagro Lane. Jay Brandon is Texas's version of John Grisham. He is a lawyer who writes books which thoroughly capture the feeling of South Texas. Milagro Lane is one of his best, as well as his quirkiest. Originally released in serialized fashion in the San Antonio Express-News, set in real time and featuring local personalities, the story features one of San Antonio's oldest families under siege from determined enemies who wish to destroy it. It also features a mysterious beautiful girl and a ghost who is only marginally helpful.



I am still reading Michael Crichton's Pirate Latitudes, but am thoroughly hooked.




Toe to Toe With Your Teen by Jimmy Meyers was my favorite non-fiction book of the year. Jimmy is a licensed professional counsellor from Austin who wrote a book for Christians about how to deal with defiant teenagers. I liked the fact that his book doesn't try to sugarcoat reality or resort to Christian platitudes.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

The Generation of the Grandparents

GENERATION OF THE GRANDPARENTS

Kristen and Stephanie’s grandparents were born during the Depression years of 1931-33. They became the first members of their families to attend college.

August 4, 1931: Leroy Melvin Froelich:

Leroy is:

Kristen and Stephanie’s grandfather.

Valeska’s Father

Leroy Melvin Froelich was born on August 4, 1931 in New Braunfels, Texas. He did not learn English until he was six years old and began school. He attended the University of Texas. He served in the navy during the Korean War. Leroy worked in the insurance and risk management businesses for many years and also renovated houses. In later years, he traveled to China.

Other events during 1931included:

The Star-Spangled Banner is adopted as the United States National anthem.

Empire State Building is completed.

The Caltech Department of Physics Faculty and graduate students meet with Albert Einstein as a guest.

Dick Tracy, a comic strip detective character created by cartoonist Chester Gould, made its debut appearance in the Detroit Mirror newspaper.

American gangster Al Capone is sentenced to 11 years in prison for tax evasion in Chicago, Illinois.

Deuterium is discovered by Harold Clayton Urey.

Other persons born during 1931 include:

Robert Duvall, American actor and director (THX 1138), Sam Cooke, American singer (You Send Me) (d. 1964) , Boris Yeltsin, President of Russia (d. 2007), Rip Torn, American actor and director, James Dean, American actor (Rebel Without A Cause) (d. 1955), Mikhail Gorbachev, President of the Soviet Union, recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize, Rupert Murdoch, Australian-born publisher, William Shatner, Canadian actor (Star Trek), Leonard Nimoy, American actor and director (Star Trek), Willie Mays, African-American baseball player, Larry Hagman, American actor (Dallas), Desmond Tutu, South African Anglican archbishop and activist, recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize, Charles Colson, American Watergate conspirator, John le Carré, English novelist, Mickey Mantle, American baseball player (d. 1995).

May 10, 1932: Jacqueline Johnson Froelich:

Jackie is:

Kristen and Stephanie’s grandmother.

Valeska’s Mother

Jacqueline Charlotte Johnson Froelich was born on May 10, 1932 in Cranfills Gap, Texas. Jacqueline earned a B.A. from Baylor University in 1953 and an M.A. from Southwest Texas State University in 1982. She worked as a stewardess for Southwest Airlines prior to her marriage to Leroy Froelich. She married Leroy Froelich on December 2, 1954. They had two children, Valeska Tomena, born on August 14, 1956, and Michael Lynn, born on October 28, 1959.

September 15, 1932: Wayne Ralph Sather

Wayne is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Grandfather

Stephen’s Father

Wayne Ralph Sather was born on September 15, 1932 in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He graduated from Breck Military Academy in 1949 and graduated from the University of Minnesota with a B.E.E. in 1954. He later earned an M.S. in Electrical Engineering from Northeastern University in 1968. He also completed 15 credits in Electrical Engineering from New Mexico State University and 12 credits in education from the University of Texas at El Paso. He earned a teacher’s certificate in 1995.

He served in the Army Signal Corps (Army Security Agency) from 1954 to 1956. Wayne worked for Raytheon Corporation for 36 years until he retired in 1992. One of the projects that he worked on was the Patriot Missile. He went back to school to become a teacher and worked as Technology Coordinator for the University of Texas at El Paso until 1999.

Wayne married Nancy Ann Newhouse on June 19, 1955. They had three sons: Stephen Wayne, born on April 26, 1961, David Scott, born on March 3, 1967 and Mark Andrew, born on May 27, 1971.

During 1932, Herbert Hoover was President and the Great Depression was in full swing.

Other events during 1932, include:

Hattie W. Caraway becomes the first woman elected to the United States Senate.

About 6 million are unemployed in Germany.
Japan occupies Shanghai.

Brave New World, a novel by Aldous Huxley, is first published.

The Reconstruction Finance Corporation begins operations in Washington, D.C.

Adolf Hitler obtains German citizenship by naturalization, opening the opportunity for him to run in the 1932 election for Reichspräsident.

Tarzan the Ape Man opens, with Olympic gold medal swimmer Johnny Weissmuller in the title role (Weismuller will star in a total of 12 Tarzan films).

Comedian Jack Benny's radio show airs for the first time.

The first of approximately 15,000 World War I veterans arrive in Washington, D.C. demanding the immediate payment of their military bonus, becoming known as the Bonus Army.

The Dow Jones Industrial Average reaches its lowest level of the Great Depression, bottoming out at 41.22.

U.S. President Herbert Hoover orders the U.S. Army to forcibly evict the Bonus Army of World War I veterans gathered in Washington, D.C.. Troops disperse the last of the Bonus Army the next day.

Walt Disney's Flowers and Trees, the first animated cartoon to be presented in full Technicolor, premieres in Los Angeles, California. It releases in theaters, along with Eugene O'Neill's experimental play Strange Interlude (starring Norma Shearer and Clark Gable), and will go on to win the first Academy Award for Best Animated Short.

The first positron is discovered by Carl D. Anderson.

In 1932 the Cipher Bureau broke the German Enigma cipher and overcame the ever-growing structural and operating complexities of the evolving Enigma with plugboard, the main German cipher device during World War II.

Buck Rogers in the 25th Century airs on American radio for the first time.

U.S. presidential election, 1932: Democrat Franklin D. Roosevelt defeats Republican President Herbert Hoover in a landslide victory.

James Chadwick discovers the neutron.

Geneticist J. B. S. Haldane publishes The Causes of Evolution and thereby unifies the findings of Mendelian genetics with those of evolutionary science.

Unemployment in the USA – ca. 33% – 14 million.

Other people born during 1932 include: Umberto Eco, Italian scholar and author, Joseph Cardinal Zen, Catholic Bishop of Hong Kong, Dian Fossey, American zoologist (d. 1985), Johnny Cash, American country singer (I Walk The Line) (d. 2003), Elizabeth Taylor, English-born actress (Cleopatra), Andrew Young, U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations, John Updike, American author (d. 2009), Gene Shalit, American film critic, Debbie Reynolds, American actress, Carl Perkins, American musician (d. 1998), Omar Sharif, Egyptian actor, Tiny Tim, American musician (Tiptoe Through The Tulips) (d. 1996), Casey Kasem, American disc jockey and voice actor (America's Top Forty), John Drew Barrymore, American actor (d. 2004), Mario Cuomo, American politician, Dave Thomas, American fast-food entrepreneur (Wendy's) (d. 2002), Donald Rumsfeld, former U.S. Secretary of Defense, Nancy Landon Kassebaum Baker, U.S. Senator, Peter O'Toole, Irish actor, Roy Scheider, American film actor (Jaws) (d. 2008), Richard Dawson, British-born comedian and game show host (Family Feud), Robert Vaughn, American actor (Man from U.N.C.L.E.), Jacques Chirac, President of France, and Little Richard, American singer and evangelist (Tutti Frutti).



September 20, 1933: Nancy Sather

Nancy is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Grandmother

Stephen’s Mother

Nancy Ann Newhouse Sather was born on September 20, 1933 in Detroit Lakes, Minnesota. She was a cheerleader in high school and graduated as salutatorian from Mora High School in 1951. She attended Macalester College on a scholarship, graduating with a B.A. in Elementary Education in 1955. Nancy taught school in Tombstone, Arizona, El Paso, Texas and Chelmsford, Massachusetts. She also worked as a private tutor.

Nancy married Wayne Ralph Sather on June 19, 1955. They had three sons: Stephen Wayne, born on April 26, 1961, David Scott born on March 3, 1967 and Mark Andrew born on May 27, 1971.

In 1933, Franklin D. Roosevelt was President and the Great Depression was in full swing.

Other events during 1933 include:

The Golden Gate Bridge begun.

The Twentieth Amendment to the United States Constitution is ratified, changing Inauguration Day from March 4 to January 20.

Nazi leader Adolf Hitler is appointed Chancellor of Germany by President of Germany Paul von Hindenburg.

The Lone Ranger debuts on American radio.

The New York City-based Postal Telegraph Company introduces the first singing telegram.

The magazine Newsweek is published for the first time.

The Blaine Act ends Prohibition in the United States.

March 2The original film version of King Kong, starring Fay Wray, premieres at Radio City Music Hall and the RKO Roxy Theatre in New York City.

U.S. President Herbert Hoover is succeeded by Franklin D. Roosevelt, who in reference to the Great Depression, proclaims "The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself" in his inauguration speech. FDR is sworn in by Chief Justice Charles Evans Hughes. It is also the last time Inauguration Day in the United States occurs on March 4.

President Franklin D. Roosevelt declares a "bank holiday", closing all United States banks and freezing all financial transactions (the 'holiday' ends on March 13).

The U.S. Congress begins its first 100 days of enacting New Deal legislation.

Franklin Delano Roosevelt addresses the nation for the first time as President of the United States, in the first of his "Fireside Chats".

U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt declares a national emergency and issues Executive Order 6102, making it illegal for U.S. citizens to own gold.

The first alleged modern sighting of the Loch Ness Monster occurs.

President Franklin Delano Roosevelt signs an act creating the Tennessee Valley Authority.

The first drive-in theater opens in Camden, New Jersey.

Albert Einstein arrives in the United States as a refugee from Nazi Germany.

The 21st Amendment to the United States Constitution, repealing Prohibition, goes into effect.

The Nissan Motor Company is organized in Tokyo, Japan.

FM radio is patented.

The Holodomor famine takes place in the Ukraine.

US President Roosevelt rejects socialism and government ownership of industry.

15 million unemployed are in the USA.

Other people born during 1933 include Oleg Makarov, Russian cosmonaut (d. 2003), Charles Osgood, American journalist and commentator (CBS Sunday Morning), Corazon Aquino, President of the Philippines (d. 2009), Yoko Ono, Japanese-born singer and artist, widow of John Lennon, Barbara Feldon, American actress and model (Get Smart), Ruth Bader Ginsburg, U.S. Supreme Court Justice, Jayne Mansfield, American actress (d. 1967), Carol Burnett, American actress, singer, and comedienne, Willie Nelson, American country singer, songwriter, James Brown, African-American soul musician (I Feel Good) (d. 2006), Johnny Unitas, American football player (d. 2002), Heinrich Rohrer, Swiss physicist, Nobel Prize laureate, Joan Rivers, American comedian, Gene Wilder, American actor (Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory), David McCullough, American historian and author, Marty Feldman, English comedian and actor (Young Frankenstein) (d. 1982), Dom DeLuise, American actor and comedian (d. 2009), Jerry Falwell, American evangelist and conservative political activist (d. 2007), Ann Richards, Governor of Texas (d. 2006), Knut Johannesen, Norweigian speed-skater, Jalal Talabani, President of Iraq, Larry King, American talk show host, November 26Robert Goulet, American entertainer (d. 2007) , Lou Rawls, African-American singer (d. 2006) and Emperor Akihito of Japan.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Dude Movies

Recently I have watched a couple of dude movies. Dude movies are the opposite of chick flicks, well sort of. Dude movies deal with themes applicable to guys. The characters may develop and explore their feelings, but there will be a lot of drinking, flatulence and off-color jokes along the way. Pretty much anything involving Judd Apatow will qualify as a dude movie. There have been a lot lately: Knocked Up, the 40 Year Old Virgin, the Hangover.

At the recommendation of my trainer, I watched two dude movies lately. I loved one and was totally unimpressed with the other.

I loved I Love You, Man. This is a movie about guy friendships or the lack thereof. When Peter Klaven gets engaged to Zooey Rice, she has to call all her girlfriends with the news. However, he doesn't have anyone to call, since it is past his parents' bedtime and he doesn't have any close guy friends. For reasons that I don't really remember anymore, he sets out to develop a close male friendship prior to his marriage, going on a series of man dates to try to bond with another dude. After a series of misadventures, he meets up a dude named Sydney. They bond over Rush music, despite the fact that Sydney is a total slacker compared to Peter's type A personality. Stuff happens. Hilarity ensues. Sydney makes it to the wedding.

The thing that I liked about this movie was that I could relate to Peter. Like Peter, I have gotten to the point where I haven't had close guy friends in a while. Watching him try to develop a guy friend to rival his fiancee's network of girl friends was both funny and kind of sad. However, the Rush music was cool, right up there with the Bohemian Rhapsody scene from Wayne's World.

However, I was totally unimpressed with Forgetting Sarah Marshall. I totally did not get this movie. The main character, Peter, is engaged to a TV star named Sarah Marshall, who breaks up with him. Possessing the strength of inner dudedom, Peter goes to pieces. There is a really awkward sequence where he has sex with random women because he can't bear the thought that Sarah is having sex with her new boyfriend, an English scumbag musician.

To deal with this problem, he does what any dude would do: he goes to a Hawaiian resort without a reservation. A sympathetic desk clerk books him into an expensive suite where he proceeds to get drunk and cry a lot. Meanwhile, Sarah Marshall shows up at the same resort with the English scumbag boyfriend. Eventually he hooks up with the hot desk clerk who temporarily got him the expensive suite.

Both movies involve dudes named Peter on a voyage of self discovery. Peter Klaven learns how to bond with a dude who is as laid back as he is uptight. Peter Bretter learns that a hot Hawaiian girl can fill the void left by a celebrity girlfriend. I don't want to be unsympathetic to Peter Bretter, but being able to sleep till noon while you write music for a show like CSI doesn't seem like that bad of a deal. I just can't relate to a dude who goes to pieces and cries a lot because his celebrity girlfriend decided that he was a loser and left him. If anything, I feel sorry for the hot Hawaiian girl who picks him up as a project.

Let's compare the message of the two movies. In I Love You Man, the message is that a guy can still be a guy despite having lost touch with his inner guyness. On the other hand, Forgetting Sarah Marshall tells us that it is possible to survive losing a celebrity girlfriend if you go to a resort in Hawaii and fall in love with a beautiful girl. Well, duh!

Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Sarajevo 12/24

This was the song which led to the creation of the Trans-Siberian Orchestra. A predecessor band, Savatage, recorded an album about the genoicide in Bosnia called Dead Winter Dead. One track was entitled Sarajevo 12/24. The song was inspired by the story of a lone cellist who would play Christmas carols in the ruins of Sarajevo. The song is a fusion of God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen and The Carol of the Bells.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Family History: The Generation of the Parents

THE GENERATION OF THE PARENTS:

The generation of the parents includes Kristen and Stephanie’s parents, aunts and uncles. The members of this generation are Valeska Sather, Michael Froelich, Stephen Sather, Diane Sather, Dave Sather, Carol Klages and Mark Sather. They were born between 1956 and 1971. The fifteen years of this generation ranged from the calm of the Eisenhower administration to the Cold War to the psychedelic 60s.



Here is what was happening in the years they were born.

August 14, 1956: Valeska Sather Waco, Texas

Valeska is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Mother

Valeska Tomena Froelich Sather was born in Waco, Texas on August 14, 1956. She graduated from Texas Lutheran College with a B.A. in General Business in 1982. She married Stephen Wayne Sather on June 9, 1984. She has two children, Kristen Sonja, born on September 10, 1992, and Stephanie Valeska, born on April 16, 1995. She worked for the University of Texas for approximately seven years and is currently a seasonal employee for the IRS and a housewife.


During 1956:

Dwight D. Eisenhower was President.

Elvis Presley enters the United States music charts for the first time, with Heartbreak Hotel.

Nikita Khrushchev attacks the veneration of Joseph Stalin as a "cult of personality."

The first episode of As the World Turns is broadcast on the CBS television network

Videotape is first demonstrated at the 1956 NARTB (now NAB) convention in Chicago by Ampex. It is the demonstration of the first practical and commercially successful videotape format known as 2" Quadruplex.

General Electric/Telechron introduces model 7H241 "The Snooz Alarm", first snooze alarm clock ever.

President of the United States Dwight D. Eisenhower authorizes the phrase "under God" to be added to the Pledge of Allegiance.

Elvis Presley appears on The Ed Sullivan Show for the first time.

The hard disk drive is invented by an IBM team led by Reynold B. Johnson.

The Huntley-Brinkley Report debuts on NBC-TV.

Suez Crisis: Israel invades the Sinai Peninsula and push Egyptian forces back toward the Suez Canal.

United States presidential election, 1956: Republican incumbent Dwight D. Eisenhower defeats Democrat challenger Adlai E. Stevenson in a rematch of their contest 4 years earlier.

Persons born during 1956 include Mel Gibson, Australian actor and director,Johnny Rotten, British punk musician and TV personality, David Copperfield, American illusionist and Bo Derek, American actress

October 28, 1959: Michael Froelich: Houston, Texas

Michael is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Uncle

Valeska’s Brother

Michael Lynn Froelich was born on October 28, 1959 in Houston, Texas. He graduated from the University of Texas at Austin with a B.A. in Radio-Television-Film. He also attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology.

During 1959:

Dwight D. Eisenhower was president.

Alaska is admitted as the 49th U.S. state.

Hawaii is admitted as the 50th U.S. state.

Fidel Castro comes to power in Cuba.

Pope John XXIII announces that the Second Vatican Council will be convened in Rome.

Walt Disney releases his 16th animated film, Sleeping Beauty.

A chartered plane transporting musicians Buddy Holly, Ritchie Valens and The Big Bopper goes down in foggy conditions near Clear Lake, Iowa, killing all 4 occupants on board, including pilot Roger Peterson. The tragedy is later termed "The Day the Music Died", popularized in Don McLean's 1972 song "American Pie".

The Barbie doll debuts.

At the opening of the American National Exhibition in Moscow, U.S. Vice President Richard Nixon and USSR Premier Nikita Khrushchev have a "kitchen debate."

Rod Serling's classic anthology series The Twilight Zone premieres on CBS.

The first known human with HIV dies in the Congo.

Other people born during 1959 include Keith Olbermann, American news correspondent and sportscaster (Countdown), John McEnroe, American tennis player, Tom Arnold, American actor and comedian, Flavor Flav, American rapper, David Hyde Pierce, American actor, Sheena Easton, Scottish singer, Eliot Spitzer, American politician and former governor of New York, Richie Sambora, American musician, Kevin Spacey, American actor, Danny Bonaduce, American actor and disc jockey, Magic Johnson, American basketball player, Marie Osmond, American singer, Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York, Emeril Lagasse, American chef and restaurant owner, "Weird Al" Yankovic, American singer and parodist, Tracey Ullman, English/American comedian and actress and Val Kilmer, American actor.

April 26, 1961: Stephen Sather Lowell, Massachusetts

Stephen is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Father

Stephen Wayne Sather was born on April 26, 1961 in Lowell, Massachusetts. He graduated from Texas Lutheran College with a B.A. in Economics and Political Science in May 1983. He received a J.D. from the University of Texas School of Law in May 1986. He was admitted to the Texas Bar in November 1986. He married Valeska Tomena Froelich on June 9, 1984. They had two children, Kristen Sonja, born September 10, 1992, and Stephanie Valeska, born April 16, 1995. Stephen worked for several law firms in Austin and is currently employed by Barron & Newburger, P.C. He is Board Certified in Business Bankruptcy by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization.

During 1961:

John F. Kennedy was President.

President Dwight Eisenhower announces that the United States has severed diplomatic and consular relations with Cuba.

President Dwight Eisenhower gives his final State of the Union Address to Congress. In a Farewell Address the same day, he warns of the increasing power of a "military-industrial complex".

The Beatles perform for their first time at the Cavern Club.

The Twenty-third Amendment to the United States Constitution is ratified, allowing residents of Washington, D.C. to vote in presidential elections.

The Bay of Pigs Invasion of Cuba.

Alan Shepard becomes the first American in space aboard Mercury-Redstone 3.

Gus Grissom, piloting the Mercury-Redstone 4 capsule Liberty Bell 7, becomes the second American to go into space (sub-orbital). Upon splashdown, the hatch prematurely opens, and the capsule sinks (it is recovered in 1999).

The Six Flags over Texas theme park officially opens to the public.

Construction of the Berlin Wall begins, restricting movement between East Berlin and West Berlin and forming a clear boundary between West Germany and East Germany, Western Europe and Eastern Europe.

Baseball player Roger Maris of the New York Yankees hits his 61st home run in the last game of the season, against the Boston Red Sox, beating the 34-year-old record held by Babe Ruth.

West Side Story is released as a film.

Catch-22 is first published by Joseph Heller.

U.S. President John F. Kennedy sends 18,000 military advisors to South Vietnam.

Adolf Eichmann is pronounced guilty of crimes against humanity by a panel of 3 Israeli judges.

"Barbie" gets a boyfriend when the "Ken" doll is introduced.

Other people born during 1961 include Julia Louis-Dreyfus, American actress, Wayne Gretzky, Canadian hockey player, George Stephanopoulos, American political consultant and commentator, Susan Boyle, Scottish singer, Eddie Murphy, American actor and comedian, George Clooney, American actor, Dennis Rodman, American basketball player and actor, Michael J. Fox, Canadian actor, "Boy George", British musician and producer, Diana, Princess of Wales, Toby Keith, American country music singer, Barack Obama, 44th President of the United States , The Edge (David Howell Evans), Irish rock guitarist (U2) , Billy Ray Cyrus, American singer and actor, Dave Mustaine, American metal singer, guitarist (Megadeth), Nadia Comaneci, Romanian gymnast and Sean Hannity, American radio/television host and conservative commentator.

April 15, 1966: Diane Roberts Sather Barton, Vermont

Diane is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Aunt

Stephen’s Sister-in-Law

Diane Roberts Sather was born on April 15, 1966 in Barton, Vermont. She married Mark Sather on May 20, 2000. They have two children, Madison Hope, born February 2, 2001 and Andrew Harrison, born June 14, 2005. The family currently resides in Huffman, Texas. Diane has worked for Continental Airlines for 23 years.


During 1966:

Lyndon B. Johnson was president.

United States President Lyndon Johnson states that the United States should stay in South Vietnam until Communist aggression there is ended.

Soviet space probe Venera 3 crashes on Venus, becoming the first spacecraft to land on another planet's surface.

In an interview published in The London Evening Standard, John Lennon comments, "We're more popular than Jesus now," eventually sparking a controversy in the United States.

The Texas Western Miners defeat the Kentucky Wildcats with 5 African-American starters, ushering in desegregation in athletic recruiting.

Bobbi Gibb becomes the first woman to run the Boston Marathon.

An artificial heart is installed in the chest of Marcel DeRudder in a Houston, Texas hospital.

The legendary album Pet Sounds by The Beach Boys is released.

The final new episode of The Dick Van Dyke Show airs.

Civil rights activist James Meredith is shot while trying to march across Mississippi.

Miranda v. Arizona: The Supreme Court of the United States rules that the police must inform suspects of their rights before questioning them.

The National Organization for Women (NOW) is founded in Washington, DC.

Sniper Charles Whitman kills 13 people and wounds 31 from atop the University of Texas at Austin Main Building tower, after earlier killing his wife and mother (his mother was killed in the Penthouse Condominiums) .

The Beatles hold a press conference in Chicago, during which John Lennon apologizes for his "more popular than Jesus" remark, saying, "I didn't mean it as a lousy anti-religious thing."

In the People's Republic of China, Mao Zedong begins the Cultural Revolution to purge and reorganize China's Communist Party.

The Beatles play their very last concert at Candlestick Park in San Francisco, California.

Star Trek, the classic science fiction television series, debuts with its first episode, titled "The Man Trap."

Grace Slick performs live for the first time with Jefferson Airplane.

Former Massachusetts Attorney General Edward Brooke becomes the first African American elected to the United States Senate since Reconstruction.

Actor Ronald Reagan, a Republican, is elected Governor of California.

The Beatles begin recording sessions for their landmark Sergeant Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band album.

How the Grinch Stole Christmas, narrated by Boris Karloff, is shown for the first time on CBS, becoming an annual Christmas tradition.

Other persons born during 1966 include Rob Zombie, American rock musician, artist, and writer, Michelle Akers, American footballer, Nancy McKeon, American actress who played Jo Polniaczek on the long running NBC television series The Facts of Life, Stephen Baldwin, American actor, Halle Berry, American actress, Salma Hayek, Mexican-American actress, Adam Sandler, American actor and comedian (Saturday Night Live), Inessa Kravets, Ukrainian athlete, Matt Drudge, American conservative Internet journalist, Christian Lorenz, German rock musician (Rammstein), Troy Aikman, American football player, Sinéad O'Connor, Irish pop singer and Kiefer Sutherland, Canadian actor.

Carol Klages Seguin, Texas

Carol is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Aunt

Stephen’s Sister-in-Law

Carol Klages was born in Seguin, Texas. She received a B.A. from Texas Lutheran College in 1989, a Master of Education from the University of Houston-Victoria in 1991, a Ph.D. in Curriculum Studies from the University of Texas at Austin in 1999 and a Masters Of Science from Walden University in 2007. She married David Sather on June 19, 1993. She is a tenured Associate Professor at the University of Houston at Victoria and previously taught high school in Victoria.

1967: Dave Sather Lowell, Massachusetts

Dave is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Uncle

Stephen’s Brother

David Scott Sather was born in Lowell, Massachusetts. He graduated from Texas Lutheran College with a degree in Business Management in 1989. He subsequently received an M.B.A. from Texas A & M University in 1991. He is also licensed as a Certified Financial Planner. He married Carol Klages on June 19, 1993. He is the President of Sather Financial Group in Victoria, Texas, which he founded in 1999.

During 1967:

Lyndon B. Johnson was President.

Super Bowl I: The Green Bay Packers defeat the Kansas City Chiefs 35–10 at the Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum.

Apollo 1: U.S. astronauts Gus Grissom, Edward Higgins White, and Roger Chaffee are killed when fire breaks out in their Apollo spacecraft during a launch pad test.

The 25th Amendment to the United States Constitution (presidential succession and disability) is ratified.

Respect is recorded by Aretha Franklin.

Elvis Presley and Priscilla Beaulieu are married in Las Vegas.

Yuri Andropov becomes KGB chief.

Israel occupies the West Bank, Gaza Strip, Sinai peninsula and Golan Heights after defeating its Arab neighbours.

Solicitor General Thurgood Marshall is nominated as the first African American justice of the United States Supreme Court.

Pope Paul VI ordains 276 new cardinals (one of them Karol Wojtyła).

Jimi Hendrix's debut album Are You Experienced? is released in the United States.

Jim Morrison and The Doors defy CBS censors on The Ed Sullivan Show, when Morrison sings the word "higher" from their #1 hit Light My Fire, despite having been asked not to.

Walt Disney's 19th full-length animated feature The Jungle Book, the last animated film personally supervised by Disney, is released and becomes an enormous box-office and critical success. On a double bill with the film is the (now) much less well-known true-life adventure, Charlie the Lonesome Cougar.

U.S. Navy pilot John McCain is shot down over North Vietnam and made a POW. His capture will be announced in the NY Times and Washington Post two days later.

The Beatles release Magical Mystery Tour in the US as a full album.

Christian Barnard carries out the world's first heart transplant at Groote Schuur Hospital in Cape Town.

Professor John Archibald Wheeler uses the term Black Hole for the first time.

Boston Red Sox win the pennant for the first time since the 1940s and Carl Yazstremski wins the Triple Crown.

Other people born during 1967 include Tia Carrere, American actress (Wayne’s World), Dave Matthews, South African–born musician, Vendela Kirsebom, Swedish supermodel, Kurt Cobain, American musician (Nirvana), Tim McGraw, American country singer, Anderson Cooper, American television journalist, Nicole Kidman, American-born Australian actress, Pamela Anderson, Canadian actress and model, Will Ferrell, American comedian and actor, Vin Diesel, American actor, Deion Sanders, American pro football and baseball player, Macy Gray, American R&B singer, Harry Connick, Jr., American singer and actor, Faith Hill, American country singer, Moon Unit Zappa, American actress and musician, Judd Apatow, American screenwriter and producer, Criss Angel, American musician, magician, illusionist, escapologist, and stunt performer and Mikhail Saakashvili, President of Georgia.

May 29, 1971: Mark Sather Lowell, Massachusetts

Mark is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s Uncle

Stephen’s Brother

Mark Andrew Sather was born on May 27, 1971 in Lowell, MA. He graduated from Texas Lutheran College with a BA in Kinesiology/Pre-Medical in May 1994 and graduated from Southwest Texas State University in San Marcos, TX with a MA in Exercise Physiology in June 1996. He is married to Diane Marie Roberts on May 20, 2000. They have two children, Madison Hope, born February 2, 2001 and Andrew Harrison, born June 14, 2005. The family currently resides in Huffman, Texas.

Mark has worked in the field of diagnostic cardiology since 1996 selling equipment and providing clinical arrhythmia analysis services. He is currently employed as a Diagnostic Cardiology Specialist by the ScottCare Corporation, headquartered in Cleveland, OH.


During 1971:

Richard Nixon was President.

A ban on radio and television cigarette advertisements goes into effect in the United States.

The landmark television sitcom All In The Family, starring Carroll O'Connor as Archie Bunker, debuts on CBS.

Apollo 14 (carrying astronauts Alan Shepard, Stuart Roosa, and Edgar Mitchell) lifts off on the third successful lunar landing mission.

Evel Knievel sets a world record and jumps 19 cars.

A new stock market index called the Nasdaq debuts.

The southern part of Québec, and especially Montreal, receive 42 cm of snow in what becomes known as the Century's Snowstorm (la tempête du siècle).

Boxer Joe Frazier defeats Muhammad Ali at Madison Square Garden.

The Ed Sullivan Show airs its final episode.

Swann v. Charlotte-Mecklenburg Board of Education: The Supreme Court of the United States rules unanimously that busing of students may be ordered to achieve racial desegregation.

The Harris Poll claims that 60% of Americans are against the Vietnam War.

The New York Times begins to publish the Pentagon Papers.

Southwest Airlines, the most successful low cost carrier in history, begins its first flights between Dallas, Houston, and San Antonio.

New York Times Co. v. United States: The U.S. Supreme Court rules that the Pentagon Papers may be published, rejecting government injunctions as unconstitutional prior restraint.

Jim Morrison, leader of The Doors is found dead in his bathtub in Paris, France.

Right to vote: The 26th Amendment to the United States Constitution, formally certified by President Richard Nixon, lowers the voting age from 21 to 18.

The South Tower of the World Trade Center is topped out at 1,362 feet, making it the second tallest building in the world.

Apollo 15 astronauts David Scott and James Irwin become the first to ride in a lunar rover, a day after landing on the Moon.

József Cardinal Mindszenty, who has taken refuge in the U.S. Embassy in Budapest since 1956, is allowed to leave Hungary.

Walt Disney World opens in Orlando, Florida.

U.S. President Richard Nixon nominates Lewis Franklin Powell, Jr. and William H. Rehnquist to the U.S. Supreme Court.

The UNIX Programmer's Manual is published.

Intel releases the world's first microprocessor, the Intel 4004.

During a severe thunderstorm over Washington, a man calling himself D. B. Cooper parachutes from the Northwest Orient Airlines plane he hijacked, with US$200,000 in ransom money, and is never seen again.

The Montreux Casino burns down during a Frank Zappa concert. The event is memorialized in the Deep Purple song "Smoke on the Water". The casino is rebuilt in 1975.

Ray Tomlinson sends the first ARPAnet e-mail between host computers.

Other people born during 1971 include Kid Rock, American rock singer, Picabo Street, American skier, Shannen Doherty, American actress, Lisa Lopes, American rapper (TLC) , Mark Wahlberg, American actor and singer, Bobby Jindal, American Governor of Louisiana, Tupac Shakur, American rapper, poet, and actor, Marc Andreessen, American software developer, Kristi Yamaguchi, American figure skater, Corey Feldman, American actor, Kristine Lilly, American soccer player, Pete Sampras, American tennis player, Snoop Dogg, American rapper, Winona Ryder, American actress, Christina Applegate, American actress, Iván "Pudge" Rodríguez, Puerto Rican Major League Baseball player and actor, Larisa Alexandrovna, Ukrainian feminist, Corey Haim, Canadian actor, Ricky Martin, Puerto Rican singer and Dido, English singer.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Family History: The Current Generation

Recently I posted some letters from my grandfather. It got me thinking about what has happened during the generations of our family. This will be a series of posts on the members of our family and what happened during the year that they were born. History has to start somewhere so I will start with the current generation: our children and their cousins.

THE CURRENT GENERATION

There are four members of the current generation of Sathers: Kristen, Stephanie, Madison and Andrew Sather. They were born between 1992 and 2005. Here is what was happening during the years they were born.



September 10, 1992: Kristen Sather Austin, Texas



George H.W. Bush was President of the United States.

Ukraine became an independent country during the previous year.

The European Union is formed.

The English FA Premier League is formed.

There are riots in Los Angeles when police officers are acquitted for beating Rodney King.

Johnny Carson retires as host of NBC’s Tonight Show.

Vice-President Dan Quayle erroneously corrects a student’s spelling of the word potato.

The Mall of America is constructed in Minnesota. It is the largest shopping mall in the United States.

Pope John Paul II issues an apology and lifts the edict of the Inquisition against Gallileo Galilei.

Bill Clinton defeats George H.W. Bush in presidential election.

Other people born during 1992 include Taylor Lautner, American actor, Emily Osment, American actress and singer, Jennette McCurdy, American actress, Rachael Flatt, American figure skater, Selena Gomez, American actress and singer, Cole and Dylan Sprouse, twin American actors, Frances Bean Cobain, daughter of Kurt Cobain and Courtney Love, Demi Lovato, American actress, singer, songwriter, Nick Jonas, American singer/songwriter and actor and Miley Cyrus, American actress and singer.

April 16, 1995: Stephanie Sather Austin, Texas.




Bill Clinton was President of the United States.

Yahoo is founded in Santa Clara, California.

Mississippi ratifies the Thirteenth Amendment becoming the last state to approve the abolition of slavery.

Forrest Gump wins Best Picture.

Oklahoma City bombing kills 168 people.

OJ Simpson murder trial.

Microsoft releases Windows 95.

The DVD is announced.

Ebay is founded.

Toy Story is released by Pixar and Disney.

The final Calvin and Hobbes comic strip is published.

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire is published.

February 2, 2001 Madison Sather Houston, Texas

Madison is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s cousin.

Stephen’s niece.

During 2001:

George W. Bush was President of the United States.

FBI agent Robert Hanssen is arrested and charged with spying for Russia for 15 years.

Sherpa Temba Tsheri, 16, becomes the youngest person to summit Mount Everest.

Tropical Storm Allison produces 36 inches (900 mm) of rain in Houston, Texas, killing 22, damaging the Texas Medical Center, and causing more than 5 billion American dollars of damage overall.

Alabama Supreme Court Chief Justice Roy Moore has a 2½ ton monument of the Ten Commandments installed in the Rotunda of the Judiciary Building. He is later sued to have it removed, and eventually removed from office.

Almost 3,000 are killed in the September 11, 2001 attacks at the World Trade Center in New York City; the Pentagon in Arlington, Virginia; and in rural Shanksville, Pennsylvania after American Airlines Flight 11 and United Airlines Flight 175 crash into the World Trade Center's Twin Towers, American Airlines Flight 77 crashes into the Pentagon, and United Airlines Flight 93 crashes into a grassland in Shanksville.

NASA's Galileo spacecraft passes within 112 miles of Jupiter's moon Io.

Enron files for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection 5 days after Dynegy cancels a US$8.4 billion buyout bid (to that point, the largest bankruptcy in U.S. history).

A Paris–Miami, Florida flight is diverted to Boston, Massachusetts after passenger Richard Reid attempts to set his shoe, filled with explosives, on fire.

The top movies for the year were:

1 Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone

2 The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

3 Monsters, Inc.

4 Shrek

5 Ocean's Eleven

6 Pearl Harbor

7 The Mummy Returns

8 Jurassic Park III

9 Planet of the Apes

10 Hannibal

June 14, 2005 Andrew Sather Huffman, Texas

Andrew is:

Kristen & Stephanie’s cousin.

Stephen’s niece.

During 2005:

George W. Bush was President.

Wichita, Kansas police apprehend the BTK serial killer Dennis Rader, 31 years after his first murder

Pope John Paul II dies; over 4 million people travel to the Vatican to mourn him.

Pope Benedict XVI (Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger) succeeds Pope John Paul II, becoming the 265th pope.

U.S. president George W. Bush nominates Appeals Court Judge John G. Roberts, Jr. to the United States Supreme Court, following the retirement of Sandra Day O'Connor.

Lance Armstrong wins a record 7th straight Tour de France before his scheduled retirement.

The Space Shuttle Discovery is launched on its "Return To Flight" mission. This is the first space shuttle flight in nearly 2 1/2 years since the breakup of Space Shuttle Columbia on its return from mission STS-107.

At least 1,836 are killed, and severe damage is caused along the U.S. Gulf Coast, as Hurricane Katrina strikes coastal areas from Louisiana to Alabama, and travels up the entire state of Mississippi (flooding coast 31 feet/10 m), affecting most of eastern North America.

U.S. President George W. Bush nominates Federal Appeals Court Judge Samuel Alito to be an Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States.

The top movies for the year were:

1 Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

2 Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith

3 The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe

4 War of the Worlds

5 King Kong

6 Madagascar

7 Mr. & Mrs. Smith

8 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

9 Batman Begins

10 Hitch

Monday, December 14, 2009

Letters from my Grand Dad

Recently my daughter Stephanie had to do an assignment on family history for her 8th grade English class. In helping her for the assignment, I pulled out a family history file that I began compiling after we got married on June 9, 1984. I came across two letters from my grandfather, Ralph Sather. In re-reading these letters, I am awed by the sweep of history. My grandfather was born on August 21, 1907, some 102 years ago. His father was born in Sweden in 1877. My Grand Dad wrote me these letters in 1984. He lived until November 29, 1992, a few months after the birth of his great granddaughter Kristen.

Here are the two letters in their entirety exactly as I received them.

August 15

Dear Steve and Val,

First I would like to say how sorry we were to miss your wedding. It would have been too much travelling. As it was, we by-passed our usual trip to Oregon to visit Barbara’s family. Even so Grandma had to spend one day in bed on the way up here. She is progressing nicely now and is gaining some strength back.

About the family history. My brother Bill has done some research and I believe there is a resume at home. When we get back, I will have a copy made and send it to you, together with other information that I think will be of value.
Both my father and mother were born in Sweden and came to this country when about 4 or 5 years of age.

My father’s name was Olson. It seems that there were too many Olsens in the area where they settled so my Grand Dad had the name changed to Sather. I do not know why he chose a Norwegian name.

I never knew either of my Grand Fathers as they died relatively young. Times were hard and they had to leave the farms in the winter and join logging crews in the North woods.

Sorry about the poor writing. I have relied upon my typewriter too much.
Best of luck to both of you and someday we hope to get acquainted with you Val.

Love,

Grandad.

October 9, 1984

Dear Steve and Val,

At long last I am going to try and give you some of the family information that you requested. I am sorry that I cannot give many of the dates and other vital information that you requested. However, I will try and give you some information from memory. My brother Bill has done some research and I am inclosing a copy of some of his data that he sent me.

Presumably my Grandparents came to this country hoping for a better life. Fortunately they could not anticipate the many hardships that followed, otherwise you and I would not be here.

Both my father and mother had very little formal schooling, about four or five grades. They being the eldest children had to go to work at an early age to help support the family.

My father had three brothers, Samuel, a baker, lived in Duluth, Minnesota, had six or seven children of which I have no knowledge as to names or whereabouts. Julius, a carpenter, never married, died relatively young of T.B. William, a dentist, lived in Little Rock, Arkansas, had one daughter who married and probably still lives there. There were four sisters, Emma, married to a Minister, no children, Saide, never married, Lena Sampson, Two children who never married and are now deceased, Bertha Hendrickson, four children, Myrtle, Alice, Roy and Theron. Whereabouts unknown.

Both of my Grandfathers died relatively young and I never knew them. My Fathers mother visited us only a few brief times. She was a small woman, whom we knew as “Little Grandma.”

My father was born in 1877 and died in 1953.

My mother was born in 1879 and died in 1957.

She had one sister, Mabel Gatzmer, still living in Minneapolis, age 91.
Four brothers, John, Charles, Frank and Edwin, all deceased. No dates.
I will not attempt to give you the names and whereabouts of their children as it probably would not be accurate.

My Grandmother, Charlotte Anderson, lived next door to us in Annandale and I knew her well. She supported her family to the best of her ability by taking in washing, all of which was done by hand. She was very religious and read her bible faithfully. She was 98 years old when she died. Your Dad will remember her.

Your Grandmother, Gertrude, was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin Oct. 12, 1904. Her mother, Caroline Kienzle was born in Wurttenberg Germany, October 23, 1870. Her Father, Emil Friend was born in Memphis, Tennessee, September 7, 1870. He died in September 1932.

When Gertrude was about two years old, her Mother, knowing that she had a terminal illness, wished to visit her family who then lived in Berlin. She never reached Berlin but died in Hamburg. Emil Friend then returned home and established residence in Minneapolis. The children lived with an Aunt and Uncle in Berlin until Emil Friend could save enough money to bring them home. That was about two and a half years later.

There were four children, Ernest, charlotte, Meta and Gertrude.
Ernest had two children, Larry and Caroline. Your Dad knows Larry who is also an electrical engineer. He is now divorced and living somewhere in California. Once He and his son sailed their own boat across the Pacific to Hawaii.
Emil Friend remarried and two sons were born of this marriage. Edwin Friend, now retired, and living in Crystal, Minnesota. Lloyd Friend, also retired and living in Las Vegas, Nevada.

I have just been informed that I made an error in saying that the Kienzle famly lived in Berlin. Actually they lived in Bechberg, Austria. Gertrude was baptized in Klagenfurt, Austria which is about 25 miles from Bechberg. The Aunts and Uncles, with whom the children stayed, lived in Berlin. Gertrude’s Grandfather operated a paper mill in Bechberg.

Ernest Friend was General Secretary of the Y.M.C.A. in Milwaukee. After he retired his wife and he took their car to Europe and after much difficulty located the towns of Bechberg and Klagenfurt. They were in Florence, Italy when the city was devastated by floods. They were in their hotel for two days without food or water, lost most of their belongings, including their car. As a result Ernest had a heart attack, was hospitalized in Paris where he suffered another more severe heart attack. He was invalided home he later died. His wife, Helen, now lives in Scottsdale, Arizona.

I forgot to mention what my Dad did for a living. For many years he owned and operated a feed mill. Shortly after world war 1 he sold the mill and purchased a movie theater which he operated until his retirement.

It is now Nov. 9th just one month since I started this letter. There were many documents to uncover, especially on your Grandmother’s side, all of which were in German which neither of us could read accurately. Also many times I have thought of re-writing this letter so that it would be in better order. However, I am sending it “as is.”

About anecdotes. My Dad had a cousin, Ole Olson Nyren, better known as “Big Ole.” He lived on Clearwater Lake, worked as a fishing guide during the summer and did some moonshining. He was a big powerful man. On occasions he would come to town, get drunk and land in jail. Each time the local constabulary would rush to get my Dad to go bail for him before he could wreck the jail. Healthwise he did everything wrong but still lived until he was about 86.
This letter is a jumbled mess but the best I can do.

Much love from your befuddled Grandad.

Grand Dad Sather

In re-reading these letters, I am awed by the harshness and the humor of life. My Grandfather's statement:

Presumably my Grandparents came to this country hoping for a better life. Fortunately they could not anticipate the many hardships that followed, otherwise you and I would not be here.

is stark in its honesty. The story of a grandmother who was left in Germany for several years after her mother died and her father could not raise enough money to bring the children home is sad. So is the story of my great-great-grandfathers who left the farms to work in the logging camps and died young.

On the other hand, the story of a great-great-grandfather who adopted a Norwegian name despite being Swedish for reasons unknown to my grandfather is humorous. (The mystery was solved many years later. Nils Olsson, my great-great-grandfather, came from a region in Sweden near a mountain called Saterbergen. Saterbergen became Sather, which means shepherd in Norwegian). Also, the story of Big Ole, the moonshiner who had to be bailed out before he could break the jail certainly puts my formerly wild brother Dave to shame.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Returning to Reality

Last week at this time, I was attending a conference in La Quinta, California. The resort was one of the most beautiful sights I have seen recently. It was an oasis of green, with putting green lawns, hanging citrus fruit and tall palm trees with a backdrop of volcanic rock punched up into mountain ridges. The Spanish mission architecture gave an exotic feeling of another place and time. At night, the air was cool and crisp, flavored by the smell of wood fires. Colorful lights adorned an impossibly big Christmas tree in front of the main building. It made for a festive, almost fantastic atmosphere.

Flying out, the plane passed over another golf resort. The green of the course contrasted with the brown of the surrounding desert, a reminder that the resort was real, but not reality, a man-made thing of beauty surrounded by the harsher natural landscape. Thus, I left the artificial world of my conference to return to the reality of my everyday life. However, unlike the barren desert surrounding the resort, my reality included returning to home, hugs from family and my own bed.